The Raw Truth — Wednesday, May 13, 2026
 

THE WATER COOLER The Big Three

#1: Auto Loan Defaults Surge as 'Underwater' Car Buyers Face Reality.

A record number of Americans owe more on their car loans than their cars are actually worth. Between the massive monthly payments, rising insurance rates, and repair costs, people are realizing they simply can't afford it, and the banks are starting to repossess their vehicles.

The Raw Truth: If you lose your car, you can't get to work, and if you can't work, your family's survival is in big trouble. A huge car payment steals the money you should be using to save for retirement and get ahead. Look closely at your monthly spending—if your car payment, gas, and insurance are eating up all your extra cash, it is time to sell the car. Buy a cheap, reliable used car with cash so you can actually breathe again and keep the stress out of your home.

#2: 401(k) Hardship Withdrawals Hit Record Highs as Americans Raid Retirement to Survive.

More and more people are pulling money out of their workplace retirement accounts just to pay for everyday emergencies, like medical bills or keeping their house from being foreclosed on. While it fixes the problem today, it triggers huge tax penalties and destroys their future savings.

The Raw Truth: Stealing from your retirement to pay for today's problems means your current paycheck just isn't enough, and you might need to pick up an extra job fast to protect your family. Pulling that money out is a terrible idea because the government will hit you with massive penalties, robbing you of the money you need to retire with dignity later. This is exactly why you need to save up a cash emergency fund—so when life hits you hard, you don't have to rob your future self just to keep the lights on today.

#3: 'Silent Layoffs' and Hiring Freezes Spread as Companies Quietly Cut Costs

Instead of making big announcements about firing people, many companies are just quietly freezing new hires and stopping all overtime to save money. This means the people who still have jobs are being asked to do twice the work without getting paid any extra.

The Raw Truth: When companies are quietly cutting back, you need to be the hardest working, most positive person in the room so your job—and your family's income—stays safe. Even if your pay isn't going up right now, don't stop putting a little money away for your future; you just have to cut back on your spending somewhere else to make it work. Most importantly, plan your monthly budget using only your normal, guaranteed paycheck—don't count on overtime or bonuses—so your family is protected no matter what your boss decides to do.
"Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing."
— Walter Schloss
 
 
 
 

TRACKING YOUR S&P 500 INDEX FUND The Ownership 10

Your 401k S&P 500 index fund — whether you know it as VOO, FXAIX, or the Vanguard Institutional 500 Index Trust — owns all 500 of these companies. When they win, you win.

The Heavy Hitters — Working Hard for You Today:

Halliburton Company (HAL) 🟢 Up 3.58% — Oil prices ticked up today and that got people excited about companies that help drill for it. They are one of the biggest crews on the planet that helps oil companies actually get the oil out of the ground.
UnitedHealth Group Incorporated (UNH) 🟢 Up 3.11% — Drifting along with the broader market today after a rough few weeks in the hole. They are the giant health insurance company that probably processes your doctor visit claims.
Netflix (NFLX) 🟢 Up 2.59% — More people signed up for their service than folks thought they would this quarter. They run the streaming service you probably have on your TV right now.
AbbVie Inc. (ABBV) 🟢 Up 2.51% — Drifting along with the broader market today. They make medicines you have likely seen advertised on TV, including one of the best-selling drugs in the world for arthritis pain.
Eli Lilly and Company (LLY) 🟢 Up 2.37% — People are still fired up about their weight-loss and diabetes drugs flying off the shelves. They make the medicines behind some of those injections your doctor or a family member may have already mentioned.

The Benchwarmers — Having a Tough Day (But Still on Your Team):

Intel Corporation (INTC) 🔴 Down 6.82% — They made a lot less money this quarter than people were counting on and the road ahead looks bumpy. They make the chips inside a huge chunk of the laptops and desktop computers sitting in homes and offices everywhere.
Salesforce (CRM) 🔴 Down 3.48% — Their growth slowed down more than people hoped and that spooked a lot of folks today. They make the software that helps salespeople at big companies keep track of all their customers.
Tesla (TSLA) 🔴 Down 2.60% — Car sales have been softer lately and there is a lot of noise around the company right now making people uneasy. They build the electric cars you see more and more of on the highway every day.
Broadcom Inc. (AVGO) 🔴 Down 2.13% — Drifting down with the rest of the tech crowd today. They make the chips and networking parts that keep the internet, your cable box, and big company computer systems running behind the scenes.
Caterpillar (CAT) 🔴 Down 1.58% — Worries are creeping in that big construction projects may slow down and that means less need for their machines. They build those massive yellow bulldozers and excavators you see tearing up roads and building sites.

Takeaway: Five companies are winning today. Five are hurting. Your index fund holds all 500. You never have to pick the right one. You just have to stay in. That is the whole game.

 
 
 
 

YOUR MONEY The Household Dashboard

Item Today Status
National Gas Avg (AAA) $4.51/gal 🔴 1¢ up today
DC Gas Avg (AAA) $4.66/gal 🔴 3¢ up today
30-Year Fixed Mortgage 6.37% 🟢 Trending
S&P 500 YTD Return see Scoreboard 🟢 Still growing
Credit Card APR Avg 22.30% 🔴 Record highs
Gas is rising — national average hit $4.51 and DC drivers are already at $4.66, both climbing today, so fill that tank right now before the pump takes even more out of your pocket.
Your credit card is charging you an average of 22.30% APR — that is a record high and it is eating your paycheck alive, so throw every spare dollar at that balance today and stop feeding that machine.
 
 
 
 

YOUR RETIREMENT The Scoreboard: Daily vs. The Long Game

Investment Today 5-Yr Return 10-Yr Return
S&P 500 — VOO / FXAIX / Vanguard 500 🔴 -0.13% 🟢 +85.2% 🟢 +317.4%
Nasdaq — QQQ 🔴 -0.85% 🟢 +105.6% 🟢 +605.9%

The TV wants you to panic about the red dot on the left. The green numbers on the right are your real story. Stay in.

 
 
 
 

The Mailbag

"Hi Rock. I’m sitting in my car in the grocery store parking lot just trying to pull myself together before I go inside to face the kids. I just spent forty minutes walking the aisles, calculating every single item on my phone’s calculator, and I still had to put the berries and the 'good' coffee back because I was $12 over my limit. My husband and I both work full-time, we have decent jobs, and we’re following the plan—but I feel so defeated. I feel like I’m failing my family because I can't even buy fruit without a panic attack. Does the 'rice and beans' season ever actually end, or is this just what life looks like now?" — Erin, Georgia

Erin, first — put the phone down for a second. Take a breath. What you just did in that grocery store was not failure. That was discipline under pressure, and it is one of the hardest things a human being can do. You did not blow the budget. You did not swipe the card and tell yourself you'd figure it out later. You put the berries back. That is not weakness. That is the whole game.
Here is the raw truth about the season you are in. Every dollar you are squeezing right now is doing a job. Say you and your husband are throwing an extra $800 a month at debt. In 12 months, that is $9,600 gone — debt that used to own a piece of every single paycheck, every grocery run, every night you couldn't sleep. The berries cost maybe $4. The debt costs you hundreds every month and your peace of mind every single day. You are not punishing your family. You are buying them a life where a $12 overage at the grocery store is just... nothing. That day is coming. Rice and beans season ends. Freedom season is what comes next.

Write the debt payoff date you are working toward on a sticky note and put it on your dashboard so the next time you sit in that parking lot, you see exactly what the sacrifice is for.

Send questions to [email protected]

 
 
 
 

THE MILLIONAIRE MANUAL The 401k Match — The Free Money Sitting in Your HR Portal Right Now

Your job is literally offering you free money every single paycheck, and there is a real chance you are not picking it up. That is not a judgment — nobody sat you down and explained this stuff.

Here is the raw math. If your employer matches 3% of your salary and you make $45,000 a year, that is $1,350 of free money annually just waiting for you to claim it. If you are not contributing at least enough to grab that full match, you are handing that check back to your company every single year. Over 20 years, with normal market growth, that unclaimed match could be worth $50,000 or more sitting in your retirement account. They are not going to call you and remind you.

The Move: Tonight — not this weekend, tonight — log into your company HR portal. It might be called Workday, ADP, Paychex, Gusto, or something your company branded themselves. Look for the benefits or retirement section and find your 401k contribution rate. Check what your employer match actually is — it is usually written as something like 'we match 50% of your contributions up to 6% of your salary.' Your one job right now is to make sure your contribution percentage is at least high enough to capture every dollar of that match. If your company matches up to 6%, you need to be putting in at least 6%. If money is tight, start at whatever gets you the full match — even if that means $20 less per paycheck, the match more than covers it. While you are in there, check whether your contributions are going into a Roth 401k option if your plan has one — that means your money grows tax-free, which matters a lot later. If you cannot find the portal or do not know your login, email HR tomorrow morning with the subject line 'How do I update my 401k contribution?' — that is it, one email. The first step you do in the next 24 hours is find that portal and look up your current contribution rate. Just look. That is all.

The Raw Truth: not grabbing your employer match is the only time in life someone offers you free money and you say no. Match beats Roth beats Traditional.

 
 
 
 

BACKPAGE The Wacky Corner

When engineers pitched Boston the Big Dig in the 1980s, the price tag was $2.6 billion. Sounds steep, right? By the time they finished burying Interstate 93 underground in 2007, the tab had ballooned past $15 billion — making it the most expensive highway project in American history, per mile. The contractor, Bechtel and Parsons Brinckerhoff, faced federal fraud allegations over faulty concrete bolts in the tunnel ceiling, and in 2006 a falling ceiling panel killed a woman named Milena Del Valle on her first wedding anniversary trip. Massachusetts ended up suing for over $450 million in repairs on a project that was supposed to fix traffic but instead became a masterclass in how fast a budget can get away from you when nobody is watching the money.

Lesson: Lesson: Costs never stay where they start — get every number in writing, assume it will run over, and never bet your financial life on a project someone else is managing.

 

🇺🇸 To every hazmat technician suiting up in the dark to contain a spill nobody else can touch — your steady hands keep whole neighborhoods safe for a paycheck that never comes close to matching the risk.

Love y'all. Attack that debt. Keep those contributions running. The plan does not change.

See you on the road. — Rock (Craig)

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